kind words

So I was talking to a lady today at one of the schools I sub in a lot and she was asking me if applied for the position at that school. 
I told her yes and then she asked, "where else are you applying?" 
I said, "I'm not applying anywhere else."
"Why in the world not?" she asked
"If I don't get the job at this school than we are going to go on to the next step which is trying to have a family."
I expected her to say, oh my dear, you have to apply other places, you can do both, work and be a mom...etc
Insead she broke out into this huge sweet smile and said, "thats Great!, I'm so excited for you!"  (at this point I could have kissed her I was so grateful for some positive feedback to our plan)

Wow, the wonders that some kind words can do, when all I've heard lately are not such kind words. 

It's not gonna be easy

So I went to the heart doc today...and the 2nd question out of their mouths had to do with when we were going to start a family.  How handy cause I was gonna ask on the same topic.  I must say she looked rather apprehensive about the whole thing, but she reassured me that having kids with my pacemaker is ok and that the pacemaker won't hurt the baby (when there is a baby). 
I do have to go off some meds b4 even trying to get pregnant bc the meds could cause early miscarriage.  So yeah this whole baby thing won't be as easy as it appears on 16 and pregnant.  HAHA

Why?

Why does is seem everywhere I go, everything I see has something to do with being pregnant? 

No I'm not pregnant...yet. 

Everyone seems to make getting pregnant, being pregnant so easy.  I wish it was that easy.  It's not